Entitled roommate enforces ‘fines’ policy, demanding money from roommate for breaking house rules, resulting in a dispute when roommate refuses to comply: ‘She's acting like my mom’

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    "She gave me an $8 fine for not making my bed"
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    "My roommate charges me "fines" for breaking her stupid rules"

    I don't even know how to deal with this anymore. My roommate (lets call her Ashley) has started leaving little sticky notes on my door with "fines" I owe her for breaking her dumb house rules.
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    The fines are ridiculous... $5 for not emptying the trash "on time", $3 for leaving the bathroom light on, but honestly the craziest one was an $8 fine for not making my bed... WT ???
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    The only way she would even know that is by going in my room when I'm not home and that makes me feel uncomfortable.
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    For the most part I've kinda just ignored it (I know bad idea) because we're on different schedules and don't see each other a lot but tonight when I got home Ashley decided to
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    confronted me with "what I owe her". Ya'll she literally pulled out a little notebook and tried to tell me all the things I did "wrong".
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    I told her there's no way I'm paying her fake fines and she got all huffy and said it's "to teach me accountability". It turned into a big fight and now we're not talking to each other (which is nice lol).
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    But like I'm not even messy. She's the one always leaving her bags and sh at the door so coming into the house is like a mine field but yet I'm the problem? Crazy... It feels
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    like she's trying act like my mom and my landlord all rolled into one. How do I even respond to her?? She's a grown a
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    woman and shouldn't be acting like this. I don't care how long she's lived in the house before me. TL;DR: My roommate is fining me for breaking her made up house rules and I'm losing my mind.
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    BubbaChanel I'm petty a, so I'd start fining her as well. But I'd write "see how stupid this is?" on the bottom.
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    Tasty Contra... OP YESSSS! I should fine her for wasting my time
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    Jewggerz Don't do this, this will only increase your problems. Just be direct with her and tell her it's not happening.
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    Tasty Contra... OP Yeah that's what I said tonight and in this post and it turned into a massive fight
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    Abroadabroad824 It's not her job to teach you anything!
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    Tasty Contra... OP I need her to understand this
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    Significant-Bass-742 Send her this thread. If she still can't rationalize, she's a waste of time and you can either accept it or move out. Can't change other people, only ourselves.
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    Tasty Contract... OP i can only imagine what sending this would do
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    nyibolc she's broke
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    Tasty_Contract... OP that's what i'm thinking
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    DapperRusticTermite8 Loveeeeee the fake name because I had a roommate named Ashley who forced me to live in h l on earth.
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    Is she actually your landlord/does she own the house? Are these rules in the signed lease agreement? If not, start there.
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    Tasty_Contract5995 OP no she's not the landlord but she has lived here for a long time
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    KingNugg710 Is your roommate Sheldon from the Big Bang theory?
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    TKyzr If you cannot move get a lock. for that door. Get a camera for your room. There is no calm discussion to be had. You tried. Document this behavior and bring the occasional friend around to witness it.

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